Have you ever idolized someone?

Have you ever idolized someone as your hero? We admire others, but why do we do that? Is it their qualities we want to nurture in ourselves?

Ellie’s story

Ellie was a client who came to me for an energy kinesiology session. As we talked, she was effusive about her deep admiration for her mentor. She spoke eloquently about his attributes, how she was looking forward to taking even more of his courses and joining the destination retreats he hosted.

“This is going to wipe out my life savings,” she confided.

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Suddenly in my mind her relationship with her hero flipped from “healthy, helpful person in her life” to “dangerously unhealthy!”

When I asked her if she had him on a pedestal, she said, "Oh, yes, I do… and yet… I’d never thought of it like that before.”

I then asked her to imagine herself standing next to him. I paused while she closed her eyes and created a mental picture.

Then I asked her, "how does it feel?” And she said, “I feel so much smaller than him, insignificant, really. He is radiant and I am not.”

Pattern of belief

In our session, we discovered Ellie's lifelong pattern of putting others on pedestals while feeling inadequate.

With energy kinesiology, we focused on the goal:

"I put myself first."

Initially, it felt foreign and frightening to her.

Your body knows!

Throughout the session we used muscle testing to find out how her body could undo this old negative pattern of belief. It’s amazing to witness the body’s ability to unravel deep-seated patterns of behavior so swiftly.

Tall and radiant

During the session, Ellie transformed. She went from “never feeling good enough” to when I asked her again to picture herself standing next to her hero, this time she said:

“I am as tall as he is, and feel just as radiant as him!” Then she said,“ I put myself first.” And she was brimming with her own self-confidence!

Aha moment

Ellie realized she could see her hero in a new light without traveling or taking all of his courses. She embraced her self-worth, recognizing her power to shine as brightly as those she admired.

Make it happen

Are you ready to break free from old patterns and prioritize yourself? Reflect on who you've put on an unhealthy pedestal. Your path to shining just as brightly starts with a laser focused energy kinesiology session.

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Epilogue

In a follow up with Ellie six months later, she shared this with me:

“That session changed something permanently in my body.

I’m still very much plugged into his community and I’m part of a group in the Bay Area that all follow his work.

I canceled going to Cancun, of course I would’ve loved to have gone, but I just don’t HAVE to go anymore. I still find his work profound and very much to my liking, but I don’t NEED him anymore.

I’m still standing tall!

What happened in the session is so hard to put into words… I think the best I can say is, you really got to the core in that session.”

I told her, I was just the interpreter. Her body held the answer and was just waiting to be asked.

Wondering if an energy kinesiology session could provide a breakthrough for you too?

Let’s find out!